STRONG ON THE OUTSIDE. DISCONNECTED ON THE INSIDE.  

 

Success without alignment eventually becomes exhaustion.

 

If you’re high-functioning but emotionally burnt out, relationally strained, sexually disconnected, or quietly drifting from yourself, this is where the real work begins.

 

Dr Massimo Fontana: Psychologist, Sexologist & Mediator.

 

LOVE FLOWS THROUGH EVERYTHING

 

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What I Do

This is not a passive therapy

My work brings together existential psychology, cognitive therapies, family systems work and clinical sexology into one direct approach. It's built for people who are ready to confront what is misaligned.

We don’t stay on the surface.

We look at identity, relationships, performance, burnout, self-image and sexual self-image, because these are all connected.

 

 

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Where Would You Like To Start?

For you or the two of you

Individual and couples sessions for burnout, relationships, intimacy and the sense of drifting from yourself. Online, wherever you are.

Work with me

For professionals and firms

Family, civil and community mediation, and CPD training for mediators, solicitors and other practitioners who work with people in conflict.

Mediation and training

 

Sessions And Training

Individual session · £150

A focused hour to examine what feels misaligned, through the six domains. Direct, thoughtful, and grounded in honest conversation.

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Couples session · £150

For partners facing conflict, intimacy breakdown or a communication deadlock. We look at the pattern, not just the argument.

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Mediation · from £175

Family, civil and community mediation as a WTA mediator with the FMA. MIAMs, joint sessions and memoranda of understanding.

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CPD training · for firms and teams

A half-day for mediators and lawyers, in person or online, with CPD hours included. 

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Courses

Learn at your own pace

Some of these are professional training with CPD. Others are for you and your relationships.

When the Room Gets Personal · 4 CPD hours

For mediators and lawyers. What your clients bring into the room, what you bring, and how to stop carrying it home.

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The Burnt-Out Man to The Grounded Man

For men running on empty. A step-by-step programme for finding your ground again regardless of what stage you're at in life.

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Relationship Burnout Program

For when the relationship feels like one more job. A way back to each other that doesn't start with trying harder.

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What clients are saying... 

I.C.G

"The first time you meet Massimo, you immediately get the sense of reassurance in his professional and calm approach. He engages issues without prejudice, which allows you to be at ease."

D.K

"Seeing Massimo has changed my life in a very positive way. He's genuinely committed and dedicated to helping his clients achieve their goals."

R.P

"He is intuitively probing and walked with me through my challenges, facilitating self-knowledge and helping me to locate and use my own inner resource with which to grow and move forward."

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The RDBSMA System

 

A clinical framework for navigating desire, boundaries and intimacy, developed over two decades of work in psychology and sexology.

What the RDBSMA System covers

A clinical framework for navigating desire, boundaries and intimacy, developed over two decades of work in psychology and sexology.

  • How to identify and voice your desires clearly
  • Setting and maintaining boundaries without guilt
  • Navigating sexual health with transparency
  • Understanding meaning and aftercare in relating
  • Drawn from clinical practice. Applicable immediately.

Explore The Work

 

High-functioning people don’t lack information: they lack clarity.

These essays explore burnout, intimacy, performance and existential alignment through the lens of the Six Domains Model.

If something resonates, don’t just read about it, please work on it.

Conflict Resolution in Relationships: Why Unmet Needs Create Deadlock

When love turns to burnout, who holds who? Explore patterns, logic,...

STAY IN THE WORK

Reflections, occasionally

 

Practical psychology, existential depth, sexual honesty. on Burnout, intimacy, performance and alignment.