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Strong on the outside. Disconnected on the inside.Ā 

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Success without alignment eventually becomes exhaustion.

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If you’re high-functioning but emotionally burnt out, relationally strained, sexually disconnected, or quietly drifting from yourself. This is where the real work begins.

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Work with Dr Massimo Fontana: Psychologist & Sexologist in focused, strategic sessions designed to restore clarity, connection and confidence.

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MyĀ Psychological & Strategic Model

The Dharmaplicity Framework

My work integrates existential psychology, cognitive therapies, family systems work and clinical sexology into one focused, truth-driven approach.

This is not passive therapy.
It is structured, direct and designed for high-functioning adults who are ready to confront what is misaligned.

We don’t stay on the surface.
We examine identity, relationships, performance, burnout, self-image and sexual self-image: because these areas are all interconnected.

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Ā HowĀ I WorkĀ 

My work is informed by the Dharmaplicity Six Domains Model. A systemic framework examining the psychological, emotional, relational, physical, financial and spiritual dimensions of life.

The work begins with a £150 session.
From there, we clarify:

• What is actually wrong
• What is driving it
• What needs to change
• What you are avoiding

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Together we address six interconnected domains of life:

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Psychological
Your patterns, beliefs and internal narratives.

Emotional
Regulation, resilience and emotional honesty.

Relational
Attachment, intimacy, sexuality and connection.

Physical
Energy, nervous system and embodied presence.

Financial
Your relationship with security, value and responsibility.

Spiritual
Meaning, direction and existential grounding.

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When one collapses, the others are affected.
We work systemically, not symptomatically.

When useful, I provide targeted reflections or exercises between sessions, but the work is never about busy tasks. It’s about insight, regulation and behavioural shift.

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Sexuality as CoreĀ Psychology

Sexual self-image is not separate from personal development.

It influences confidence, attachment, power dynamics, performance and relational depth.

My background in psychology and sexology allows us to examine this area without shame or avoidance. We integrate sexuality as part of your overall alignment, not as an isolated issue.

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The Aim

Clarity.
Regulation.
Self-leadership.
Alignment between who you are and how you live.

From here, deeper structured work or online programs may follow, but everything begins with direct, focused psychological work.

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WhatĀ clients are saying...

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Discover how my tailored approach has transformed the lives of individuals and couples alike. From reigniting passion in relationships to unlocking personal growth and enhancing performance, my clients have experienced profound changes. Here’s what they have to say about their journey toward deeper connection, self-discovery, and empowerment through our sessions.

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"The first time you meet Massimo, you immediately get the sense of reassurance in his professional and calm approach. He engages issues without prejudice which allows you to be at ease in unveiling a different view in life that is within you. He is very articulate in conversation which enhances the openness as well as the learning process of a person. The balance in his approach allows you to realise the path to take to recovery without patronising your vulnerabilities. Our conversations were not only therapeutic as well as insightful in helping me find a different way of thinking."Ā 

-I. C. G

"Seeing Massimo has changed my life in a very positive way. I have achieved significant growth as a person during my time in therapy with Massimo, as well as feeling more in control of my life and destiny. I’d highly recommend Massimo, he’s genuinely committed and dedicated to helping his clients achieve their goals. He also possesses a tremendous amount of patience to listen to problems thoroughly and suggest a variety of approaches to see which works best. Most of all, he made the process of therapy enjoyable and I always looked forward to my sessions." — D. K

- D. K

"Massimo is a very incisive and professional individual. During our therapy together he has shown himself to be extremely dedicated and goal orientated with a tedious work ethic. He is without a doubt a highly motivated person, a strategic thinker with impeccable time management skills, encompassing a pragmatic yet inclusive style throughout the therapy. His capabilities and therapeutic experience span in a range of sectors which in the interim complement each other and prove themselves invaluable."Ā 

-R. T

"I found Massimo by chance on a men's group on clubhouse. I was going through an incredibly tough time with a recent divorce, and struggling to own my manhood and sexual energy. I reached out to Massimo, and it's one of the best decisions I've ever made. Through his coaching and advice, I have been able to accomplish mental stillness, patience with myself, and oneness with my masculine energy, and high sex drive, something I had struggled for years with. He's one of the best sex therapists I’ve ever worked with, and will continue to reach out to him when I hit other walls, knowing that I’ll get a quick response with his accountability.

I recommend Massimo, to any man who is in need to go back to his primal manhood, to live and accept your own passion and sexuality, and to have a coach that deeply cares about his clientele."

-J. R

"Massimo has made a significant impact to my life. He has helped me manage myself practically and emotionally through a difficult time. He has a contagious positive energy that feeds the ability and desire to learn. He is intuitively probing and walked with me through my challenges, facilitating self-knowledge and helping me to locate and use my own inner resource with which to grow and move forward. Massimo is enthusiastic, friendly and supportive—enabling healing. He has a practical approach and gives very useful guidance which is rooted in his depth of knowledge and experience. This delivers solutions and enduring tools to maintain ongoing stability and continued development. I highly recommend."Ā 

-R. P

"I would highly recommend Massimo. His advice and therapy has been fantastic. Always willing to listen and help. He made the treatments comfortable and I was able to deal with areas of my life which I didn’t feel I would ever overcome. I now look at life with a smile and am totally transformed as a person. I am so happy I shared this experience with Massimo — (someone who takes you through the process at your own pace and comfort). Professional, highly motivated, dedicated and helpful. The best part is he never tells you what to do but somehow manages to make you find your own solution. Once you have that internal answer putting it into practice becomes easier and problems somehow shrink! Would highly recommend!"Ā 

-J. K

"I met Massimo at a time when I was grieving and unsure how to process a close relative passing away. I was also uncertain on how to navigate my new family dynamic with complex characters involved. We addressed all aspects of my life and he gave me tools to navigate my emotions. The fortress he helped me build has repaired and strengthened my relationships, and has helped in part to keep us together. Massimo was gentle, patient and full of honest self-reflection that has really helped me in all aspects of life. I am eternally grateful and would thoroughly recommend him."Ā 

-M. S

"I sought therapy following the unexpected death of my father. I was drowning in grief which unearthed repressed/unprocessed emotions in my close relationships and career.

Massimo held space for my fragmented thought process, tears and deep despair. I called him between sessions to work through acute emotions and how to manage them. Almost a year on from completing therapy, I’m definitely out of the woods. I am forever indebted to Massimo’s bespoke support and expertise."Ā 

-A. S

"I found Massimo in TikTok, I really connected with the spiritual way he explained relationships.

I wrote him and although he was in Barcelona and I was in Peru we started working together.

He make me release the depth of sexuality and intimacy anymore can reach with a partner. Understanding my power as a woman , knowing my body and connecting with it .. It was a game changer for me. I ā€˜m very grateful!!!!"Ā 

-K. L

"I worked with Dr. Massimo Fontana during one of the most challenging periods of my life. I was dealing with deep-seated sexual traumas and facing intense emotional strain as I navigated the end of my marriage. Dr. Fontana’s guidance gave me a safe space to process complex emotions, empowering me to find strength and clarity during such a turbulent time. His empathetic and supportive approach made all the difference, helping me rebuild a sense of stability and resilience. I am incredibly grateful for his help in guiding me toward healing."Ā 

-F. B

"Massimo has done more for me than any previous therapist, and I’ve had many over the last 12 years.

I first learned about Massimo from podcasts where he was a guest, and I was stunned by his non-judgmental approach, wisdom, and openness to life—something unique to me—so I booked my first appointment.

The person who showed up to that first session was someone deeply ashamed of herself, both as a human and as a woman. I knew I needed to leave the relationship I was in and ask for a divorce—a decision I had been struggling with for two years. But I couldn’t find the courage or even accept myself for thinking this way. I was also in a state of permanent freeze and dissociation.

Massimo not only helped me come out of that frozen state and awaken my feminine energy, but he also by proxy helped meĀ  to feel comfortable and powerful wearing a black dress o enjoy a silly dance as a way to release stress, boost happiness, and reconnect with myself. It feels surreal to say this now because a year ago, I couldn’t have even imagined it—let alone planned for it. (And it wasn’t even something I initially asked to work on!)

Most importantly, I’ve filed for divorce, and I am proud of myself for reaching this milestone. I am entirely grateful to Massimo for helping me get to this point.

Massimo’s patience, kindness, and ability to hold space for me, no matter the form or mood I showed up in, taught me what it truly means to feel safe with another person. He gave me a corrective experience that I never believed was possible. I had always dismissed that phrase as just a catchy term. Yet, Massimo also helped me rewrite the narrative of my traumas and realize that they don’t have to define my life. Again, this was something I never believed could happen.

He patiently worked through every ā€œbutā€ I could throw at him (and I stretched that to the maximum!), waiting until I was ready to try something different. I never felt pressured or ashamed during our sessions—only supported, with the sense that I had someone firmly in my corner. That was a feeling I had never experienced before.

Does this mean life is easy now? No, because life isn’t like that. But Massimo has taught me how to navigate bad days, and I feel far better equipped to handle them. He has also broadened my perspective and taught me so much about life that I don’t think a simple ā€œthank youā€ can ever be enough. I truly owe him my life—the life I can now paint for myself. So don’t think twice and don’t walk but run he is worth every penny!"Ā 

-K. K

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