Press & Media
I frequently appear on podcasts and contribute to various media outlets, where I share my expertise on relationships, sexuality, and mental well-being. From discussing sexual flow states to exploring topics like intimacy, personal growth, and peak performance, I aim to offer engaging and thought-provoking perspectives. If you're looking for a guest for your podcast or an expert to interview, I'd love to bring my years of experience as a sexologist and therapist to your audience.
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Bridging the gap in your relationship
Dr. Massimo Fontana brings his expertise in both the masculine and feminine dynamic, and trust me, we donât hold back. This convo is as raw and honest as it gets, and weâre here to clear up the confusion, bridge the gap, and make sure you and your partner arenât just going through the motions anymore.
- Why do you feel so disconnected right after sex?
- Are you afraid to admit you're craving something deeper?
- Feel like you're doing all the emotional heavy-lifting in the relationship?
- Wish your partner understood you without having to spell it out every single time?
We tackle these burning questions and more. Weâre getting real about whatâs missing in relationships and what needs to change to bring back that deep connection you deserve.
Oh, and keep your eyes peeled because something epic is on the way. Letâs just say you wonât want to miss whatâs coming next⌠đ
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Using the sexual flow state to find love: A new approach to dating.Â
Thereâs an epidemic of loneliness affecting people of all ages and genders, and app dating is leaving singles feeling more disconnected than ever. But what if there was a new approach to dating that could help you avoid wasting time with the wrong people? In this episode, I, Dr. Massimo Fontana, join Annette for a fascinating conversation about how you can reconnect with your sexual self and use your natural sexual flow state to manifest the partner of your dreams.
We even act out a dinner date scenario, showing viewers and listeners exactly how to navigate their next date for optimal results. I also share several activities you can incorporate into your dating and love life to help you find your next great love.
In this episode, youâll learn:
â¤ď¸ What your sexual self is; â¤ď¸ How to identify it; â¤ď¸ What a sexual flow state is; â¤ď¸ And how to use it to manifest the life and partner you truly desire.
This episode is packed with practical tools and insights to help you take control of your love life and start attracting the relationship youâve always wanted.
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How men can understand and align with her pleasure cycle
"He just doesn't get it when it's that time of the month!" Well, ladies and gents, this episode is about to change the game! đ
Join us as Katelin and IÂ openly discuss the nitty-gritty of understanding and aligning with the female menstrual cycle. It's not just about surviving the cycle, it's about flowing together and enhancing your connection. In this episode, we unpack the different phases (or how Katelin likes to say seasons) of the menstrual cycle and how they affect emotions, energy levels, and yes, pleasure! We discuss: How to support your partner during her cycle from both a female and male perspective. The emotional flow for men and how understanding your partnerâs cycle can bring you closer.
Oh and the juicy tips from me on integrating pleasure into each phase of the cycle. Weâre hitting the disconnection, the confusion, and the frustration. But weâre also going deeper in emotional connection, better physical intimacy, and more pleasure for both partners.
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Do you have a spontaneous or responsive sex drive?Â
Ever wondered why youâre not always ready for sex at the drop of a hatâor why your partner might be, but youâre not? Enter stage right: the two types of sex drives you NEED to know aboutâresponsive and spontaneous.
In this episode, Louise and I, Dr. Massimo Fontana, a clinical sexologist, dive deep into the differences between these two types of sex drives and why what might seem like mismatched libidos could actually just be different sexual styles. Understanding this can transform the way you approach sexual pleasure and relationships.
We cover:
â¤ď¸âđĽ The two types of sex drives: spontaneous and responsive; â¤ď¸â What triggers each sex drive into action; â¤ď¸âđĽ How to identify which type you have; â¤ď¸âđĽ How to communicate this to your partner to improve your intimate moments; â¤ď¸âđĽ How to flow between the two and not âover categorizeâ yourself.
We also explore different types of cues that turn people onâvisual, auditory, and kinestheticâand why this is another crucial part of our sex lives that no one ever taught us in school.
This episode unravels the dynamics of sex drives, helping you enhance your intimate connections with yourself and any lucky partner in your life.
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Sex - High libidos, low libidos and mismatched libidos and the 30% rule
How much sex drive is too much? Do we use orgasms as a way to escape the pressures of daily life? And can you actually have too many orgasms? What happens when your partner wants to have sex, but you donât?
In todayâs episode, Louise Rumball and I, Dr. Massimo Fontana, therapist and sexologist, explore these fascinating and often overlooked questions. Together, we dive into:
⢠The dopamine hit of orgasm and the allure of orgasmic escape; ⢠How orgasms can serve as coping mechanisms, distractions, or self-soothing techniques; ⢠The differences in libidos and the root causes of high and low sex drives; ⢠How even painkillers and mouthwash can make orgasming harder; ⢠Justin Bieberâs sex addiction; ⢠The concept of 'penetration' and the use of sex for validation.
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Sex - crying after sex, is it normal?
Have you ever experienced post-sex tears and wondered, "WTF is wrong with me?" Don't worry, you're not alone. In this episode, Louise Rumball and I, psychologist Dr. Massimo Fontana, dive deep into this rarely discussed but common experience.
We explore the many reasons why people cry after sexâfrom emotional and physical release to the impact of past sexual trauma and our own unique sexual stories. We tackle the things no one else is talking about.
Whether youâve shed tears after a steamy session, are curious about this phenomenon, or want to support a partner or friend whoâs been there, this episode is for you. Join us for an enlightening and compassionate conversation that will help you feel more empowered, aware, and connected to your own sexual journey.
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Sex - How to have better, stronger and longer orgasms ft. breathplay, choking and edging.
- How breath, breath play and breath restriction can elevate your orgasms
- The difference between the 'hold' and the 'choke' and the 'strangle'Â
- The 101 guide on how to neck hold safely
- Cosmic orgasms, what they are and how to get there
- Erotic massage and what this entails
- Edging towards orgasm & how vibrators can help you
- The internal and external orgasm and how to pair them well together
- The vaginal barbell (yes REALLY)
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Sex happens in our bodies, so why are we in our heads?
In this episode, Louise joins me, Dr. Massimo Fontana, to explore why, despite pleasure being a body-based experience, so many of us get stuck in our heads during sex.
We dive into:
⢠How much sex is the right amount of sex? ⢠The Orgasm Wall and how everyoneâs wall is built differently; ⢠How body image, stress, and lifestyle affect libido; ⢠The reality of climax anxiety and performance anxiety; ⢠The concept of "spectatoring" â being in your head rather than your body; ⢠And, most importantly, how to get out of your head and reconnect with your body.
This episode offers practical tips and insights for anyone looking to create a deeper, more fulfilling sexual experience.
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Sex and Dating - if casual sex traumatises the fuck out of you...
Does casual sex leave you feeling fear, regret, guilt, sadness, and rejection, while others seem to find it fun, free, and easy? In todayâs episode, Louise is joined by me, Dr. Massimo Fontana, as we explore why that happens.
We dive deep into why casual sex can be so emotionally traumatic for some, and not for others, while Louise bravely shares her personal experiences to help you feel less alone.
In this episode, we cover:
⢠The link between casual sex and anxious attachment; ⢠How sex can create mini traumas; ⢠The grief cycle of casual sex; ⢠Why itâs particularly tough for those with anxious attachment or abandonment wounds; ⢠The feeling of âgiving yourself awayâ and why we often feel empty afterward; ⢠How to manage the grief, regret, and shame connected to casual sex; ⢠And the chemicals behind feeling âlove drunk.â
This episode offers valuable insights for anyone struggling with the emotional aftermath of casual sex.
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Infidelity - The psychology of the other woman
In this episode, the OPENHOUSE therapists dive into a user submission from someone who has been the âOther Womanâ for far too long. She asks the team:
⢠HOW did this situation happen? ⢠How did she get so brainwashed? ⢠What kind of person entertains a long-term affair? ⢠Why does this person hold so much power over her? ⢠Where does she go from here?
Louise and the therapists explore:
⢠How affairs begin; ⢠The type of person most susceptible to becoming âThe Otherâ; ⢠The real meaning behind the phrase âI canât leaveâ; ⢠The role of power play and adrenaline in these dynamics; ⢠The difference between attention and intention; ⢠The darker, shadow sides of accepting shameful love; ⢠How to leave or end an affair; ⢠And how to avoid getting involved in one in the first place.
This episode is a raw look at affairs and offers valuable insights for those navigating these painful situations.
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We're having sex not going to the circus
Our sex episodes are back! Join Louise and me, OPENHOUSEâs resident sex therapist, psychologist, and intimacy coach, Dr. Massimo Fontana, as we dive into an open, raw conversation about:
⢠Making love in the dark; ⢠Balancing receivership and service in the bedroom; ⢠How pornography and âfake it till you make itâ culture are affecting our sex lives; ⢠The fragile ego and why we take it personally when our partner doesnât orgasm; ⢠Why weâre not creating space to explore our sexual selves; ⢠How to communicate what you likeâand donât likeâin the bedroom; ⢠Building intimacy where itâs about connection, not just orgasm; ⢠The importance of being in your body rather than stuck in your head; ⢠Aftercare, safety, and non-violent sexual play.
We also get into topics like breath play, blindfold play, making sex tapes, the Masterâs and Johnson Orgasm curve, crying in the shower after sex, and my HEARTSPACE trick to help you and your partner grow closer together.
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Therapist hotline - I'm in a happy relationship, so why am I thinking about someone else?
In todayâs first-ever OPENHOUSE Hotline episode, Louise brings a listener's question to clinical psychologist Dr. Tari Mack and me, sex therapist Dr. Massimo Fontana. The listener shares that, although sheâs in a happy, long-term relationship, sheâs started thinking about someone at workâa lot.
Louise asks us for our thoughts on what to do when you start thinking about someone who isnât your partner. We dive into:
⢠Is this normal? Does it happen to everyone? ⢠What to do when it happens; ⢠Why these feelings are often more about you, rather than the person outside the relationship; ⢠How the other person can reflect something deeper about yourself or your relationship; ⢠Why stepping out of bounds isnât always the answer; ⢠The shame and guilt that often come when people engage with the âother personâ thinking it will make them feel better.
We also explore whether itâs normal to fantasise about someone who isnât your partner and share tips and tricks for reconnecting in your relationshipâboth inside and outside the bedroom.
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Why do we glorify big dicks and pussy shame?
Friends, I am beyond excited to join the OPENHOUSE podcast and help you reach new heights in sex, intimacy, and deep connection. While female empowerment is key, I love bringing a male perspective to the conversation, offering a fresh way to look at today's sexual conditioning from all angles. In this episode, we dive into some juicy topics like the rise of "designer vaginas," the impact of pornography on body image, and why society glorifies big penises and performance-based sex. We also explore the disconnect many of us have with our sexual selves and the role of religion in shaping sexual shame.
We'll cover everything from the Bell Curve for male and female orgasms to why foreplay is often overlooked in today's society. Louise also opens up about her own experiences in her sex life, and I ask the tough questions to help unpack it all. This is just the beginning of many important, intimate discussions to come!
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Is seduction always manipulative?
In this episode, I sit down with sexologist, therapist, and sex coach Dr Massimo Fontana to explore how seduction can be approached with honesty, love, and authenticity. We discuss how seduction doesnât have to be manipulative when it comes from a place of openness and playfulness. We also tackle how to keep the passion alive in long-term relationships.
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How to seduce a man: A male sexologist's perspective
In this enlightening episode, I chat with sexologist and therapist Dr Massimo Fontana about the art of seducing a man. We dive into why women are drawn to romantic drama, where to meet high-quality men, and how to spark interest from the very first date. If youâve ever been ghosted, struggled to keep a manâs attention, or want to attract someone whoâs eager to introduce you to family and friends, this episode is for you!
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